Hearing the news that your partner is unexpectedly pregnant can feel like standing at a crossroads. You may be overwhelmed with thoughts of responsibility, uncertainty about the future, or concern for her well-being.
While it may feel like everything is happening all at once, remember that your partner is likely feeling these same emotions. You can help provide support as you navigate this unfamiliar path.
A Women’s Pregnancy Center is here to provide resources and support to pregnant women and their partners as they navigate unplanned pregnancies. We are here to help you through this challenging time.
Creating a Supportive Relationship
An unplanned pregnancy can be an emotional time, but staying calm and steady can provide your partner with a sense of security. Being her support source means showing patience and empathy while reassuring her as you process the news.
Be present, listen to her without judgment, and create a safe space for her to share her thoughts and fears. Remind her that you are in this together and are here for her no matter what.
Gather Information About Your Options
If you’re scared about parenting after finding out your partner is pregnant, we understand. Your fears and concerns matter. Talk to a male team member at A Women’s Pregnancy Center to process what you’re going through and discuss your pregnancy options in a safe and nonjudgmental space.
There are many decisions ahead, including choices about parenting, adoption, or abortion. Take the time to gather information and think through the impact of each option on both of your lives. The more you know, the more you can support one another when discussing these crucial choices.
Consider having open, honest discussions with your partner that allow you time to reflect and understand what’s best for each of you.
We’re Here to Help
You and your partner don’t have to face this pregnancy decision alone. We offer free and confidential pregnancy services and peer counseling to help you both make informed decisions.
Contact us to schedule a free appointment today.